My darling husband called one day and says how about a date tonight? Awww...
I suggested, how about a project together instead?
We didn't really have a plan, but there was a need. Our trashcan was cracked, country blue, no lid (inviting the cat to rummage) and not pleasant. We used cabinet door panels that I "just happened to have" and odds and ends lumber from the scrap pile. There was no arguing and we had a good time accomplishing something together. Fun!