Kelley's Buzz

"Providence"

2011-10-28T16:48:00.000-07:00

Oh, my, it has been a long while since I posted! I have been anything but bored. Very busy creating things for my home and for the upcoming craft booths. We have already participated in one booth locally, with plans for two more next month. In the meantime, I have painted my living room, slipcovered a chair and hassock, gone camping, tiled a laundry room, made cards, more collages....the list goes on and on.

I have just finished this collage, based on the inspiration of Phil 4:13...

"I can do everything through him who gives me strength."

The colors requested were butter, salmon, red and neutrals.

It measures 36 x 48.

I chose a quilt block called Providence. By definition it means "the foreseeing care and guidance of God." It is by His provision we do His will. The center block, in whites and pale golds, represents Jesus, the Bright Morning Star. The block is executed symmetrically and as exactly as one can be with handcut papers. The tree is rooted in Jesus and grows long and tall. At times, pruning has occured, just as we all experience.

Scattered around the collage, are stamped words, suggesting all we "can do" through Him, such as grow, worship, love, play...

This piece is composed of over 600 handcut pieces, using over 30 prints of paper, including vintage worship music.

I would love to hear what you think.

Sofa Table with a story

2011-07-29T05:41:00.000-07:00

Don't you just love a good story? This table has many years under its belt, but it was built just last week. I come from a long line of creative homemakers who see beyond what something looks like in the moment to what it could be.

A few months ago, my mom was watching the ruins of a burned out old house in hopes of talking with the owners. She walks the area every day and knows the goings on, if you know what I mean. Finally, she had a chance to talk with them and got permission to salvage a few of the porch posts. I buzzed over there with my truck and my wonderful husband and these babies came home.

The top shelf is barn wood, complete with red paint, from my daughter's new in-laws. It was used as siding on their wedding wagon...long story.

The bottom shelf came from my grandmother's barn before it was torn down. I guess there was salvaging in my blood way back then...almost 20 years ago...just waiting for the right moment to shine.

A couple of years ago, another local barn was being torn down and my wonderful husband salvaged some hickory posts and beams. Today, a few pieces make the feet of this table.

So, when you look around your home, what story does it tell?

Hope you have a blessed day.

Linking up to Miss Mustard Seed FFF and Addicted To Decorating

Playing with Photoshop Elements

2011-07-14T15:06:00.000-07:00

In some of my blog surfing, I ran across Kim Klassen and her cafe. She offers really amazing tutorials on using photoshop and is a wonderful teacher. Oh my...I have so much to learn!

Blessings ;)

Asheville, NC

2011-07-08T14:37:00.000-07:00

For our 24th anniversary, my husband and I went to Asheville, NC. What an interesting town! It was quite "environmentally friendly" and "creative." Of course, the Biltmore was really something to see. I was blessed to learn that the couple was quite in love.

We were nearly the first visitors in the gate and we spent the cool of the morning in the gardens. My darling husband was VERY patient as I played with camera settings and my tripod.

There were many "take-aways" from this visit. I loved the plantings in the suitcases. It was unexpected in such a manicured place.

I promise to post more on my projects...several things are now checked off the list.

Blessings.

My kind of Birding

2011-04-26T09:20:00.000-07:00

Looking around our house today, I realized I have something "birdy" in every room in our house! We live in the woods and they are alive with the sound of bird calls. That is one of our home's best features.

I made this little fella from scraps of an old quilt. It combines a few of my favorite things in life: quilts, birds and all things vintage.

Blessings!

Present for Baby Girl

2011-04-15T09:01:00.000-07:00

I have been wanting to make some baby shoes for ages. At last someone in my circle is having a baby girl and this is the set I came up with. I had a pattern for the shoes. They are lined with regular felt. The pattern called for wool felt but there was no white available. Anyway, I came up with a ribbon embellishment in lieu of buttons (choking hazard). The onesie is a $2 purchase at Walmart, embellished with a ruffle "skirt", embroidery and another ribbon flower. I had such fun and so many more ideas for this personalized baby gift.
Ah, someday I will be a fun Grandma...not too soon though!
Blessings,

"The Narrow Gate"

2011-04-14T05:58:00.000-07:00

"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." Matt 7:13-14

"Known"

2011-02-04T16:33:00.000-08:00

Psalm 139
"O Lord, you have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways."

"If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast."

"You created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."

I love to create paper collages. Usually they begin with faith. I love this Psalm...I am comforted to know that I am "known". If only all young women could keep this reassurance close to heart.

Blessings

Quickie Bathroom Update

2011-02-02T13:11:00.000-08:00

I have been quite remiss in posting my projects the last couple of months- I have been SO busy DOING them! I always overload my to-do list around the holidays and it takes me awhile to recover. For example, ten days before Christmas, when college students come home for the holidays, I decided to paint their bathroom and give it a fresh face. It cost less than $150, mostly paint. It was a deep satin red...

I primed and painted two coats of color plus the ceiling. I am loving the "robin's egg" blue and white decor with a running bird theme. The picture is a paper collage with a sparrow in a snow storm..."His Hand is on the Sparrow." We also got one of those nifty curved shower rods and a snap over the rod curtain.

I finally downloaded my camera and have lots more photos of projects to share. Hope you all are safe and warm in this cold, snowy winter.

Blessings.

Year round chargers

2010-12-27T08:09:00.000-08:00

I don't know about you but sometimes, I just have to CRAFT!

I picked up these bright, plastic chargers at Old Time Pottery for $1 each. They would be a perfect base for some crafting. First, I wadded and then flattened some white tissue paper. I used Mod Podge to apply it over the gold.

After that dried, I glazed with some dark brown acrylic.

Then came the fun of decorating each one uniquely. I LOVE these papers by Jim Holtz...very vintage-y.

I used the cricut to add our monogram. Then I followed up with a couple of coats of polycrylic.

These turned out pretty good and they are much more interesting than our placemats were. They were not a big investment and I had so much fun making them. Only problem is that now my dishes don't quite measure up. This will likely increase the total cost of the project. (chuckle) We also discovered a side bonus...they hold paper plates nicely when we are being bums in front of the TV.

I am looking forward to more sewing and creating and decorating and entertaining in the new year.

How about you? Blessings to you and yours.

"Merry Christmas"

2010-12-22T05:15:00.000-08:00

Instead of a wreath on my front door (which my husband tangles with every time he comes in the house) I decoupaged some old Christmas cards around a beautiful picture. I used the insides of the cards with personal signatures and messages. This is a lovely way to remember some who are no longer with us. A cricut made the letters easy.

From my front door to yours, I wish you the most blessed Christmas season! Take a moment to reflect on the most wonderful meaning of the season. "For God so loved the world that he gave his only son, that whoever believed in him would not perish but have eternal life." John 3:16
Blessings to you and yours!

A simpler Christmas!

2010-12-13T08:24:00.000-08:00

I am keeping it much simpler this year than I have in the past. No Elf craziness like last year! Be sure to check it out.

I added a burlap garland to our tree this year. I cut strips of burlap, frayed the edges and stamped the words to our favorite Christmas tunes all along the strips. I used white acrylic paint and large foam stamps. Usually, I have many strands of the red wood beads and this year I doubled them and draped them.

On my china cabinet, I put the middle size tall, skinny tree with white lights and vintage ornaments in front of a mirror. My favorite shiny brights and santas are all grouped in this vignette.
I am going to hold my breath a few more days to add some fresh cedar and pine boughs. And I'll kick in the cookie baking in a few days. How are you treasuring the season?
Blessings.

What you missed at our craft booth

2010-12-12T15:20:00.000-08:00

For the first time, I decided to have a craft booth at a couple of my favorite shows of the season. I was able to sweet talk my mom into helping. She made these awesome hand painted signs and was a wonderful buddy/encourager for the days.

As you can see, we had a wide variety of "stuff" and actually did pretty well for beginners.

This is my most recent collage, titled "His hand is on the sparrow". I made a several cloche displays and they were well liked.

Our displays were mainly louvered closet doors in various applications. Kinda shabby chic.
We had a good experience with the whole thing. Our products were well liked and Mama had several orders for custom signs. We will definitely continue to do this stuff.
I have been checking in on my favorite blogs but, as you probably noticed, I have not posted. Wow, all this actual "doing" of the crafts takes a lot of time! Check back soon for some of my own Christmas decorations.
Blessings!

My "Spot" continues to evolve

2010-11-05T20:03:00.000-07:00

Remember the red chaise I finished earlier this year? It looked rather lonesome in the corner with nothing to hug it. Honestly, I wasn't really drawn to the spot. My junking mentor, my mom, found the old door. I grabbed these bifold closet doors off the roadside. The lamp is one of those "touchy" things and so far it isn't possessed (coming on by itself-bad experience with that technology). I found it at a yard sale. The most expensive part of the door screen is the lamp shade at $6.99. I got a piano bench to fit between the door and the chaise to hold my cup and my books.
It is a really quiet spot to get away from the media and really cozy. How about you? Do you have a "spot" that hugs you?

Blessings

Hot Date = Trash Can

2010-10-08T07:03:00.000-07:00

My darling husband called one day and says how about a date tonight? Awww...

I suggested, how about a project together instead?

We didn't really have a plan, but there was a need. Our trashcan was cracked, country blue, no lid (inviting the cat to rummage) and not pleasant. We used cabinet door panels that I "just happened to have" and odds and ends lumber from the scrap pile. There was no arguing and we had a good time accomplishing something together. Fun!

A sweater slipcover?

2010-10-05T07:11:00.000-07:00

I am cheap. Yep, I look for creative ways to make our house comfortable ...on the cheap. I longed for a comfortable spot to put my feet up by the fire. Enter a one dollar garage sale hassock. That's what we call them in the south. And one large sweater from Goodwill.

I pulled the sweater inside out, over the hassock and carefully tailored it to fit (not really, stretchy is very forgiving.) I went around the bottom with quarter inch elastic so it comes off easily.

So, here is the finished project. Very cozy and the cat loves it. I used the leftover arms to make some more stuffed pumpkins.

Have a lovely fall day! Blessings.

Fall is in the air

2010-10-03T15:55:00.000-07:00

One of my most favorite things to do for entertainment is to play with my pretty things. These items are usually meaningful. This old UT Vols radio was my dad's in college. The carved bird was a gift I got for my husband when we were dating. And the amber glass was purchased on a trip with my mom and it has acorns from lovely walks with my dogs.

I love old landscape paint-by-numbers. And these "treasures" just feel cozy to me.

This bell jar is placed on a solid walnut pedestal my husband turned for me. I am going to have a lot of fun with the little vignettes to place under glass. I made the pumpkin out of the sleeves of a sweater left from another project. It won't spoil!

Last night we hosted a wienie roast for my mom's milestone birthday. We had chili with all the fixin's too. It is definitely that time of year. We are starting to see some color change on the trees here in Middle Tn, too. Ah, fall is in the air!

YOUR style

2010-09-11T08:42:00.000-07:00

Just have to share a couple of comments I heard this week on decorating:

"Do you think my ----- is dated?"

"I am not really comfortable because I am afraid I will mess up something."

"It feels like a magazine in your house."

"I love to look at all the interesting things around here."

Here's my decorating philosophy: If "it" (color, furniture, art, arrangement) brings beauty and function to your life, relax and enjoy it. If you are hanging onto "it" due to obligation or indecisiveness, get help to settle your space to more reflect yourself. The only time to really be concerned with what is "on trend" would be if you are trying to sell your home. That would be the time to back off on your own decorating personality to help the potential buyers see how they could live in the space. It is usually helpful to bring in a friend or professional to help you see your home's potential. You know what they say about another pair of eyes...

Have fun in YOUR home, in YOUR style.

Blessings

Door to Daybed

2010-09-02T09:22:00.001-07:00

My son has moved into his own apartment. What a milestone for all of us! One concern was in furnishing it as inexpensively as possible. We decided to build a daybed for more seating and also sleeping. We are talking a studio apartment.
The actual build was very basic. The inspiration was to use this old door as the back. (I have had that door about 10 years, waiting for this exact moment in time, LOL.)

We started by sanding it a bit and then spray painted patches in the room colors. If I had it to do over, I would spray larger patches so they aren't so hard to find.

We painted two coats over the whole thing with Rustoleum's dark brown flat. After it was really good and dry, we sanded through the brown to expose the colors and some patches of the base color. All this was topped with a clear coat. I just happened to have some striped fabric to cover pillows and scored with this comforter at Goodwill for $3.99. We are pretty thrilled with the outcome.

Blessings

Honeybees in my house!

2010-08-30T08:14:00.001-07:00

So, one morning I was just hanging out with my BFF in our bonus room and we noticed the shadow of bugs swarming just outside the window. After much concern and observation, I called a beekeeper to confirm that is was honeybees who had made their home in mine. ^ I am allergic to bee stings.^ Calls to exterminators were futile since bees are protected in TN. Most good ole boys who do siding didn't want to shimmy up 20ft to tangle with bees. Finally, I found a siding company who would remove the siding and coordinate with a beekeeper who would retrieve the darlings. And after more calls, I found a bee suit to loan the siding guy. By now, we are into 2 months of phone calls and honey making.

Siding removed and saved, and ladders and walk board on loan, the beekeeper removed the chipboard to find that the bees were NOT under the siding but behind the bricks. Note that the guts of our home are VERY exposed. Mr. Beekeeper could not remove the bees from behind the bricks and said we would have to exterminate them. (This makes me sad, understanding that our bee population is so vital, but he did say the hive was very small. He encouraged this operation at this time so they had a chance to survive the relocation.)

It was challenging to find an exterminator to get rid of the bees. My house was hanging open for almost 3 weeks. See the trampoline under the walk board? That was my mother-in-law's brilliant idea for when I shimmied up the ladder to spray the bees myself-just in case I fell. In doing the math, at my weight, from that height, I still would have eaten concrete. What a hilarious operation it was just moving the trampoline into position! With unceasing and fervent prayer, no one was injured in this project!

Finally, the approach to the hive was through my craft room closet. (You know what a packed hot mess that must have been!)

Hopefully, it is done for now. I have seen horrible photos and read horrible stories online. I don't know what will happen with bees in the future but I am so relieved our house is sealed up and done for now! What an ordeal!

Blessings

"To the Crownless King"

2010-08-19T10:17:00.000-07:00

Things have definitely not been boring around here! Although it has been awhile since I posted, I have been very busy. Almost everyday has involved a "project" and I will share many over the next few weeks. I have spent a lot of time preparing furniture pieces for my son's first apartment. Surely you remember those days when you are so excited to be in your own place and you want things to look great AND on the cheap. He really does have a sense of style!

In the meantime, I made this art project with the inspiration of the quote:

"All that is gold does not glitter, not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither, deep roots are not reached by the frost. From the ashes a fire shall be woken, a light from the shadows shall spring; renewed shall be blade that was broken, the crownless again shall be king." JRR Tolkien, The Hobbit.

Blessings.

Birthday Banner

2010-07-12T07:30:00.001-07:00

Recently, I went to visit my daughter for a birthday celebration...on the road! I took a pretty cake plate and candles for the purchased treat and a fun birthday banner.

To start, I bought a regular "Happy Birthday" banner at Hobby Lobby and I took it apart. Needlenose pliers made it easy to pull apart the rivets. Then I used spray adhesive to apply the letters to pretty scrapbook papers (which coordinated with the cake stand and napkins).

After I cut them out, I used regular craft paint to edge the letters and minimize the tabs. I punched holes and used some ribbon on hand to restring the letters.

I am pretty happy with the result and I will definitely do this again, just to have on hand.

As simple as can be, but it was my "craft fix" for the day, and I think it made her smile.

Blessings.

Bloom where you are planted

2010-07-08T08:35:00.001-07:00

I love zinnias. With one small packet I have several cut flowers for small bouquets through the summer. This year I scattered three packets in carefully prepared areas in our front flower beds. They fill in the gaps between perennials and flowering bushes. An area I did not plant was amongst the sidewalk pavers, not even close. These beauties came up on their own and are actually thriving, with lovely red, pink and peach colored blooms. We have to notice them each time we walk by so as not to disturb them.
As he walked by them this morning on his way out, my wonderful husband suggested I blog about these flowers. Several words come to mind when I consider their situation...
Courage -because they are not sticking with the predictable path of their contemporaries.
Determination -speaks to their strength in a difficult situation.
Beauty -in their vigor and lively colors.
Contentment -as they are being what they were created to be in this moment.

"I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether wll fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength." Phil 4:12-13

Blessings.

Friends, it's been a while...

2010-06-27T17:31:00.000-07:00

It has been quite an eventful month for me! I went with a team from our church on a medical mission to Haiti. Our objective was to assess the kids at the orphanage sponsored by our church and then to open the "clinic" to the local community.

This is just one of 300 photos I took on the trip. Here are a few of my impressions:
1. God is strong when we are weak...and He has not forgotten Haiti. The worship service was lovely. Familiar hymns were sung and the people were praising!
2. The people are gracious and grateful. Our clinic offered free treatment of those things we could fix in our brief visit. Even children who waited with parents were well behaved and all were patient.
3. Although Haiti is the poorest country in the western hemisphere, the people are mostly happy. They seem to have learned to live in the "now" rather than worrying about yesterday and tomorrow.
4. Basic infrastructure issues seem to keep the people in this poverty. Water filtration and waste disposal would go a long way in helping their overall health.
5. They are real people with real love and concern for their families. Moms would wait for hours to get care for children; teens brought grandparents; most were dressed in Sunday best, even if they walked quite a distance to be seen.

Too often I have seen the news of another disaster on TV, been saddened by the images, purposefully prayed for their plight. Eventually, I have moved on to the concerns of my own world, relatively safe but narrow. My motto since deciding to go on this mission has been that "I am weak, He is strong." I don't have experience in field medicine (again only the safety of bedside nursing in a major teaching hospital) so I was very light on the value added component for the team. I was totally out of control for this entire mission and it was quite freeing. Each of us were on this team by a Divine plan. We were privileged to have briefly touched their bodies, while they touched our hearts. I have new compassion for all His people...

I would encourage everyone to watch for opportunities for God to grow you. Be warned, it will mean stepping out of your comfort zone!

Blessings!

In Pursuit of His Heart

2010-06-09T06:57:00.000-07:00

"Trust in the Lord and do good;

dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.

Delight yourself in the Lord

and he will give you the desires of your heart."

Psalm 37:3-4

My friend and I spent several days at the beach (before the oil arrived). This photo was taken shortly after sunrise, while walking the beach and appreciating His Glory. Unlike most vacationers, we chose to drink plenty of water, to eat healthy, and to exercise plenty. I've come home refreshed and hopeful.

We are in pursuit of His heart.

A touch of red-bedroom

2010-06-07T11:37:00.000-07:00

I have said many times that my favorite color is red. I admit that this chaise is a huge blast of bold print and color. Certainly, too much is less than calming.

I put just a few touches on the other side of the room. I added the cardinal on the limb to the collage and just happened to have some crocheted trim for the pillow.

I guess it is enough for now. Aren't all homes in continuous growth and change? Never boring!

Blessings!

Hill vs. Mountain

2010-05-23T06:04:00.000-07:00

I was thinking about hills this morning. I live in middle Tennessee where there are many lovely rolling hills ... green pastures, trees, an occasional red barn. As you go east in our wonderful state, you see the Smoky Mountains in the distance. The Smokies are a favorite destination in our state. From the top of Clingmans Dome, you can see for 100 miles on a clear day. Of course, that is after quite a stenuous hike.

I have heard "You have to know which hill is worth dying on." This is really good advice in relationships and wars. Is is really worth the drama and ruckus to fight about which direction the toilet paper comes off the holder? To some people that is a hill. Some true hills that need to be explored early in a relationship are money and parenting. Each person needs to define their position on the hill before continuing the hike. You have to know where you stand. And hopefully, being rolling hills, you will win some and lose some and compromise some. That is knowing which hill is worth dying on. That is the give and take of relationships.

What if, after a long, long hike, climbing many hills, you reach the top to find the whole journey has been a terraced mountain after all? Sadly, you find that you didn't understand the hill or the destination. First, do what any good general would do...fall back and regroup. Pray for divine intervention. Rest and then journey forth with new definition.

Blessings

Self-Control

2010-05-14T19:40:00.000-07:00

Finally, the last of the Fruits of the Spirit, is Self-Control. How many times have I started a diet, doing all the things I am supposed to, including exercise, only to be de-railed by an argument? How many times have I prayed that I would guard my tongue, only to cut someone off at the knees without meaning to? Oh, my, self-control is a desirable fruit.

Thankfully, self-control is about more than my own will-power. Each person has boundaries...space, relationship, influence, emotions. By defining and protecting these boundaries, you are exercising self-control. When there is a hole in this wall, we react. A healthy person will monitor these walls and evaluate those reactions. This is healthy thinking. First, patch one hole at a time. Second, cultivate relationships with those who have the discipline you want. "It's hard to soar like an eagle when you are surrounded by turkeys." Finally, reward yourself with good things. My husband says I need to pay attention to what is really good for me...like maybe the pound size bag of M&Ms would not be really good for me.

Again, we have to remember and believe, that these fruits are grown in us by God. An apple doesn't choose to be red or sweet. It is by being connected to the tree that nutrients reach the apple to make it the fruit we all love. It is by being in relationship with our Creator that He can grow these fruits in us.

Blessings

Gentleness

2010-05-11T06:05:00.001-07:00

Nope, this is not a post about the Clampetts. It seems appropriate to come to this Fruit of the Spirit near Mother's Day. I am talking about gentleness. I have heard it said that "gentleness is great strength under great control". Moms can probably identify with that as the little ones are circling while you are on the phone or asking for something while you need a moment in the bathroom or when your child survives a potentially tragic bike accident. I can say it doesn't change as they get older and leave the nest.

Elisa Morgan, in Naked Fruit, describes it this way: "Being yielded to God's desires means letting go of mine. When we admit that we don't really get to choose what will happen or not happen to our children or who they will or won't become, we recognize that what we're investing in their young days has an ending point. Eventually they will gather up the heap of stuff we've offered over the years, throw it into the trunks of their cars, and head off on their own. They might purpose to grow a life that matters-themselves-or they might not. And we don't get to choose. They do."

God has that great strength and we have to rest in the trust that He loves us. We can know that "in all things God works for the good of those who love him." We can yield.

Blessings.

Faithfulness

2010-05-07T19:43:00.001-07:00

This is Polka. She got her name at the rescue shelter where my daughter found her. At 10 weeks she was just 3 1/2 pounds and today she is more like 33 pounds. She has grown in size and in our hearts. These days she is my shadow. When I put something in the sink, she follows me. When I put something in the hamper, she follows me to my closet. While I make my bed, she stands there waiting for me to get finished. And yes, when I go to the bathroom, she is waiting for me to get out. To me, Polka is the picture of faithfulness in body.

This seventh Fruit of the Spirit is faithfulness. It speaks to our faithfulness to God and to each other. He grows this fruit in us when we are in relationship with Him. How do you do that? You seek Him sooner rather than later when you are facing a crisis; you give thanks to Him when you see how blessed you are; you talk to Him about all the little and big concerns on your heart.

In our everyday dealings, we need to be faithful to our values and to our commitments. Let your "yes" be your "yes" and your "no", your "no". Be a person of integrity. This is faithfulness to each other.

Faithfulness is a core characteristic of God. He will never leave or forsake His children. He wants a relationship.

Blessings.

Tweaking a common bedspread

2010-05-01T17:24:00.000-07:00

We have a king size bed with a pillow top mattress. This has always posed a challenge for me when it comes to a comforter that would cover the sheets. I know many tuck their comforters but that is just more trouble than I am willing to commit to on a daily basis. Finally, I settled on this relatively common mattelaise (sp?) spread. I wasn't thrilled with the scalloped edging.

So here is what I did about it: I added a neutral border. It is a tan basket weave print that will do for now.Moral of the story: Be willing to look beyond the obvious that is in front of you. You probably could put your personal stamp on it and it would be special.

Blessings

Kindness and Goodness

2010-04-28T19:02:00.000-07:00

Number five and six in the list of Fruits of the Spirit are kindness and goodness. It seems proper to discuss these together because, in my opinion, one is the result of the other. Naked Fruit identifies kindness as an action, and goodness as the cause of that action. Because goodness comes from within, our actions speak of our heart. Kindness is the hands-on version of loving on others. With goodness in our heart, we are motivated to call a lonely widow, to offer words of encouragement to those struggling, to provide meals to a family who is grieving...the list of possibilities to show kindness is unlimited.

Too often, we find ourselves drained by the "stuff" imposed by our culture and we don't have the time/energy to show the kindness. I think this is one way we come up short on the Fruit of goodness. We need to keep our hearts tender to the concerns of others, ie. goodness. We need to allow others to come alongside us, ie. receive kindness, so that we can pass it on.

Beautiful Blog Award

2010-04-27T17:24:00.000-07:00

Doesn't this make for a lovely day!

Here are the rules:

1. Thank the person who nominated you for this award and link to their blog.

I am so honored to have been granted this Beautiful Blog Award by ArtsyFartsy Shopaholic. A huge THANK YOU to this lovely, classy woman. AFS has such good taste and a real talent for hospitality.

2. Pass the award on to 7 other bloggers who have a beautiful blog.

Here are my picks:

A. Artsy Fartsy Shopaholic...she has such style. Be sure to check out her posts on Create My Event on Fridays. Very clever!

B. Under the Table and Dreaming...lots of creative ideas for all ages and styles.

C. The Little Red Shop...I just love her artistic, cottage-y style and the music is a nice touch. Hope her Peep gets better.

D. Transforming Home...as a busy mom of three boys, she still has the heart and creativity for some really great decorating ideas for real life.

E. My Yellow House...she has chosen a simpler life style that emphasizes the beauty in everyday life.

F. Three Dogs at Home...She says, "Dogs don't go to college." I can't help but have a soft spot for someone who loves dogs. I find myself in a similar stage in life.

G. Rare and Beautiful Treasures...just a beautiful site in word, spirit, attitude and eye candy.

3. Contact the other bloggers and let them know they won.

Done!

4. Post 7 things about yourself.

a. Well, I am an empty nester who has lots of creative time on her hands. Hence, the blog.

b. I have been a Registered Nurse for 26 years, mostly High Risk OB.

c. Hopefully, my next career will be as a decorator. I recently became certified in redesign and staging.

d. I have over 35 hours of flight training, including a solo flight across three states.

e. I love power tools and am not afraid of trying to do any DIY, including installing hardwood floors and repairing the dishwasher.

f. I am a child of God; I have to frequently plop this lump of clay back on the Potters Wheel.
g. I am really technology challenged and this is a stretch for me.

Patience

2010-04-23T08:18:00.000-07:00

I enjoyed a lovely Saturday morning exploring a local farm, especially their wildflowers. I took this photo of a stump that had been turned upside down because it looks very "artistic". Sometimes just looking at something, or a situation, or another person, from a different angle will help us see their beauty. Often we don't have the luxury of time to learn about the roots of the situation or how we got to this point. We need to exercise patience to really love that person. I know that I rarely have any idea what made that clerk rude or that speeding car cut me off or the string of events that led to such a snarky comment. When we remember that our Creator has such patience with us and all our missteps, it is only fair to pass this grace on to others. Patience is loving the unlovely, again and again.
Blessings

Recipe: Crunchy Asian Salad

2010-04-15T05:25:00.000-07:00

Occasionally I will pick up one of those little recipe books at the checkout line in the grocery store. I am really enjoying this one: "Simple Healthy Meals by Betty Crocker." My family and I have really enjoyed everything I have tried out of this magazine. Here's one we had recently:

Healthified Crunchy Asian Salad
Dressing:
1/3 cup canola oil
1/3 cup rice vinegar
3 tablespoons sugar
3/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon pepper

Salad:
1 package (3oz) ramen noodles, any flavor
1 bag (16oz) coleslaw mix (shredded cabbage and carrots)
8 medium green onions, sliced (1/2 cup)
1/2 cup sliced almonds
1 medium red bell pepper, cut into 1x1/8 strips
2 seedless oranges, peeled, coarsely chopped
2 cups baby spinach, coarsely chopped

1. In large bowl, beat dressing ingredients with whisk until sugar is dissolved.
2. Break up noodles in bag, discard seasoning pkt. Add noodles and all remaining ingredients except oranges and spinach, to dressing, toss to coat. Stir in oranges and spinach (gently).
Note: The noodles do not stay crunchy very long, but leftovers are still delicious.
Blessings

Peace

2010-04-13T17:16:00.000-07:00

Third on the list of the Fruits of the Spirit is peace. A peaceful Saturday morning might look like an extra hour or two of sleep followed by an excellent cup of coffee with a good book, all still in pjs. It would seem that "the moons lined up" for a peaceful morning. True peace is really less about ideal activities and more about contentment with your reality. Peace is possible when you are resting in relationship with God. In this relationship, there is calm confidence, i.e. peace, in each turn of the path.

I am reading a wonderful book called Naked Fruit by Elisa Morgan. I don't know anyone who doesn't want more love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Luckily these fruits are produced by the Gardener, God.

Blessings

Joy

2010-04-13T16:57:00.000-07:00

Next on the list of the Fruits of the Spirit is joy. Of all the characteristics listed, I want more of this one especially. Joy is so much more than that warm feeling when you get a present or when the dinner was (not burnt) good. It is so often confused with happiness, the root of which is hap which means chance. Happiness is a fleeting emotion that "happens" based on chance. Do you know someone who seems to be emotionally up and down like a roller-coaster, usually due to unpredictable circumstances. Joy is based on your confidence in God. In fact, it is a statement of how big you think God is in your life. Just as these wildflowers are blooming in the middle of decay, a life anchored in God can be joyful.

Love

2010-04-13T16:41:00.000-07:00

I am sure you have heard things like "Love makes the world go round," or "All we need is love," or "Love one another." Interestingly, it is the first in a list of characteristics that everyone would aspire to claim. I am talking about the Fruits of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5. Most weddings I have attended include the description of love found in 1Cor 13: patient, kind, not envious or boastful, not proud or rude or self-seeking, not easily angered. It does not mention that you have to be nice all the time. Who can be nice all the time? It really isn't loving to allow an unruly child to go without correction. It really isn't loving to not tell your friend she has a giant poppy seed in her teeth (you know who you are!). Thankfully, this kind of love is about the choice to behave in these ways to even those who are un-lovely at that moment. And, thankfully, God grows this in us. What might be holding you back from giving-or receiving-love?
Blessings

Pillows: when you HAVE to craft!

2010-04-10T16:38:00.000-07:00

You know that I LOVE red! I had burgundy pillows on my couch for the longest time because it went with the rug, but I prefer the good ole fire engine red with a folk art-ish feel. This was a little piecing, a little applique and a few vintage trims. I can easily change the covers when I change my mind again! Sometimes, you just gotta craft!
Blessings

Easter Decorations

2010-04-04T06:57:00.000-07:00

I wanted to share my latest crafty project. I blew out eggs....quiche for dinner!...and decoupaged with cut out napkins. On a few, I just painted my favorite robin's egg blue and speckled (I know, really huge for robin standards.) Notice how cute they are snuggled in and around the lovely turned wood pieces my husband made. Maybe I can keep my Martha card.
Blessings.

Real World Easter Brunch

2010-04-04T06:52:00.000-07:00

Perhaps after seeing this photo, I will have to hand in my Martha card. I have seen such lovely photos of tablescapes all over blog world. The centerpieces are color and style coordinated to go with the home's decor and the wonderful feeling of spring. The dishes are lovely with china and crystal. Fresh flowers and several eggs and bunnies are certain to make an appearance.
We have been basking in the beauty and hope of spring all weekend. There has been lots of time for laughing and sharing and living...not so much for angst in the dining room. We are rejoicing in the hope that Sunday brings- He is alive indeed! Our Savior defeated death that we may have this hope.
After sleeping in a little (Saturday morning), we enjoyed good coffee, breakfast casserole, biscuits and gravy. Our daughter and her husband were with us...a little mature for Easter bunnies but there were treasures to be had. We have much to be thankful for.
Blessings.

A Season of Change

2010-03-21T15:35:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was the first day of spring and it was beautiful here in TN. We had clear blue skies and 70 degrees. It was a leisurely day. My how the weather changes...we may have snow accumulation tonight! I am so ready for that to be done for the season.
It is also a time of change for our family. We were blessed to have two healthy wonderful children only 15 months apart. Even when two were in diapers, it wasn't as hard as this season in our family. You see, our daughter married only 8 months ago and now our son is going overseas to study for 11 months. The empty nest is upon us.
This season is tough because the roles are changed. I have confidence in their adulthood, so I hesitate to call this feeling grief. I really like the people our children have become. Dare I just call it pride? It is the goal of good parenting but I didn't expect it to feel like this.
So, while I haven't posted in over a week, my home and heart have been quite busy. I will be pursuing a redesign business very soon. I know that life is never boring. While our children are going to be out of the house, our relationships are still strong and healthy. God's blessings are new every morning.

Do SOMETHING: aka clean out a closet

2010-03-12T14:00:00.000-08:00

Well, it has been awhile since I have had anything to post. I have been dealing with allergies and that means antihistamines...kinda bubble-headed and low on motivation. So, as I was lying down, contemplating a long list of projects (aka, dosing), my buddy called and she was DOING things. Of course, this meant that I needed to DO something too.

This little closet is my pantry/catch-all. I had multiples and misplaced items and yuck. It was pretty tedious finding anything.
This is the difference a day can make. It is a little thing in the grand scheme of things but it is tidy and organized. I scrubbed the walls, floor and door....but don't you love the markings showing my family's vertical progress? If we ever move, that door will go with us!

So, the moral of the story is sometimes, we just have to DO SOMETHING. This will get the momentum going!

Blessings.

Words through a whatever filter

2010-03-03T16:48:00.000-08:00

You have probably heard the analogy that words are like toothpaste...once spoken you can not take them back anymore than you can get the toothpaste back in the tube. How many times have I said something and then thought about what the impact of the words would be? I find that I must daily pray for help in guarding my tongue and that my words would cause no harm.

"For out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks." Matt 12:34 So, I am searching my heart. If I think on things, it will eventually effect my emotions. My actions are usually the result of emotions. A good place to start in clearing up the sludge would be my thought life.

"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things." Phil 4:8
So, bring on more "whatever"!
Blessings

The heart of organizing

2010-03-01T16:59:00.001-08:00

The other day at the library, I picked up the book organizing magic by Sandra Felton. I am always on the lookout for a better way to get the job done. I was surprised to find that most of the book is focused on the philosophy of getting organized from the inside out. We really need to start with our own goals. I am finding that each person has their own set point of order.
"I want peace. I want to see if somewhere there isn't something left in life of charm and grace." -Rhett Butler, in the movie Gone with the Wind.
I can really identify with Rhett. I feel the peace and charm and grace in a place that is relatively clean, interesting, personal, natural and real life. I guess the heart of the matter is usually the best place to start.

Taco Lasagna- a family favorite

2010-02-23T18:01:00.000-08:00

I find that I haven't shared one our favorite recipes. I am sure you could find other versions and the basic certainly lends itself to your own special tweeking! Let me know what you think. It is not a very expensive covered dish to carry, too.

Taco Lasagna

1 lb burger, beef or turkey

1 pkt taco seasoning

8 tortillas, flour or corn

1 can refried beans

1 16 oz jar salsa

1 can whole kernel corn, drained

8 oz shredded cheddar

Brown burger, drain and add seasoning pkt per directions. In a 9x13 baking dish, spread about a half cup of salsa. Cut and arrange a layer of tortillas to cover. Spread half the refried beans over tortillas, followed by half the seasoned burger and then half the corn. Next drop spoonfuls of salsa evenly, then sprinkle with cheese. Repeat these layers. Top with another layer of tortillas, salsa and cheese. Cover with foil and bake 30 minutes at 375 degrees. Remove the foil the last five minutes or so. Nice topped with more salsa and a dollop of sour cream.

Blessings

Handy tips that really work!

2010-02-20T19:28:00.000-08:00

I am always looking for nifty tips that REALLY work. I had seen on TV that these depressions in the carpet could be lifted with an ice cube. Well, lo and behold, it really works.

Another great idea, I saw mentioned on Rachel Ray was to store your plastic wrap in the freezer. This cuts down on the static cling and makes it easier to pull out and position. It reverts back to its tedious self when it warms to room temp. Yeah, I know, seems weird to put it in the wrong place, and my husband is much less entertaining to watch using the plastic wrap. But it is a tip that really works.

Last fall, I mentioned a dirty little secret. I really do love this tip. I thoroughly cleaned my fiberglass shower and gave it a coat of car wax. I should stress that the FIBERGLASS shower WALLS were coated. This really repelled the water and soap scum buildup. I did not put it on the floor...wouldn't want to slip. I think this delayed cleaning the walls for several MONTHS.

So, maybe these ideas will make your day a little easier.

Blessings.

The cat ate my Big Red Chaise

2010-02-18T19:22:00.000-08:00

I was pretty proud of the finished chaise. I still need to sand and finish the legs. I have already had some wonderful quiet time in my spot.

Allow me to introduce you to Callie. Isn't she sweet and pretty? Who knew?

She is wildly attracted to the under lining of this thing. Callie must like the old smells, maybe. She managed to pull away this whole corner and almost the other side, too. Some call this a fainting couch and I almost needed it when I saw this.

I have introduced her to a more agreeable scratching style. It is even laced with catnip. I will have to ponder how to decorate it to make it blend with the decor. You can't imagine how creepy it is when she goes at it in the middle of the night.

I am just giving her some time to think about what she has done. That'll show her!

Blessings.

Come visit my house!

2010-02-18T18:13:00.000-08:00

I am linking up with Transforming Home house tour party, my first linky thingy. I am delighted to welcome you to my home. We really live here...that means that you probably won't see huge, all encompassing photos because I moved the "pile" out of camera sight.

These are photos in my living room. Can you tell we have a gamer in the family? And we have the piano that really has no other home and we must keep even though no one plays it because...?

This is one tidy spot in my bedroom. I have tan walls, lots of white, some kinda denim-ish blue and a few pops of my fav, red. My bedroom is one of those projects that has taken so long that some things are worn out or out of favor. My red chaise is in this room.

My open kitchen/dining room is very casual country. The far wall is dark sage-y green beadboard which matches the backsplash in the kitchen area. To the left is my simple china hutch. I enjoy changing the display on the plate shelf, on the light side now.

And last, I thought I would share my laundry closet. It is painted a fairly bold aqua, with some red (of course). I am loving my machines, by the way. They are LG. I have a folding platform on top that we hinged for easy access if necessary.

Introducing my Etsy shop!

2010-02-14T14:03:00.000-08:00

I love to make paper collages...my sweet husband graciously calls them "art"...

Each canvas is unique and original, created with hundreds of hand cut papers. Some designs are familiar quilt patterns, some are more modern artistic interpretations, and some are nature inspired.

This piece is inspired by 2 Peter 3:8-9 and is titled "Like a Thousand Years." I am touched that God is so graciously patient that all could come to know Him. The canvas depicts a day from dawn to twilight and from spring to winter in the same vision.

I have found this passion and I am delighted to share it with you. Come see what is going on at my shop... kelleybdesigns.etsy.com

Blessings.

Make it .....MORE

2010-02-10T06:00:00.001-08:00

Thought I would share an idea for making your tub MORE.

Our deep jet tub is pretty simple. Simple is good. But this is the focal point in our bathroom and I wanted special. I used a pair of swing arm curtain rods mounted as high as possible with a sheer white curtain tied back to frame the alcove. The hanging light fixture draws your eye up.

A robin's egg blue ceiling and bamboo shades creates a bit of a spa feeling, don't you think?

I am thinking this sounds like a great place to warm the bones in this winter weather.

Have a blessed day.

The Big Red Chaise

2010-02-06T07:05:00.000-08:00

I have had an adventure! I wanted a quiet place in my own sanctuary (our bedroom) where I could escape the TV and the open family space. I thought I wanted a chair and ottoman, maybe a cute little table and lamp. But I happened upon this chaise. It has been sitting in my room for about 4 months while I gathered up my courage to tackle the re-upholstery. I am usually more of a slipcover kinda girl but this piece had been stored in a barn and was just yucky looking.
My first step was to totally strip this thing down to the wood. I knew I didn't want the tufting because I wanted a more cushy feel. I am so glad I stripped it down because it contained a remote control, someones reading glasses, a Christmas light bulb and....mouse droppings and "stains"....EWWGH!

I spent $40 on the chaise, another $80 on the fabric, foam, piping, batting, etc. (I had some coupons at JoAnns and Hobby Lobby.) I have also learned that an electric stapler is just not the same as pneumatic. I LOVE my air stapler! I looked around to see what else needed stapling while I had it out. No one sat still for very long. And I seem to have a pretty quick learning curve...I only stapled my finger once.

So this is the final product...Yep it is very LOUD. My husband said he didn't think he would be able to sleep with this in the room. But here is my thinking: It is for me...I love red...it is really not seen by anyone unless they are welcome in my bedroom....it makes me happy!

So, try something NEW!

Blessings

Treasures on display

2010-02-02T06:37:00.000-08:00

At the beginning of the year, I decided to change out as many of my decorative accessories as possible. I don't know about you but after a while, I hardly even noticed my "stuff." The black shelves (which I made on the fly) once held about 10 vintage cameras...not very colorful and no elevation change. Although the empty frame thing bugs my husband, I really like the age and form of these. The dried hydrangeas (see how) are just the right natural element.

These treasures have been in hiding a loooonnnggg time and now they fit the open spot in my kitchen. More hydrangeas...

I am going out today to buy a pneumatic stapler......YEAH! I am working on my first and maybe my last re-upholstery project. I have no idea what I am doing and just winging it. I can't wait to post the photos. (That will mean it is done, LOL!)

Blessings.

Snow Day!

2010-01-30T16:21:00.001-08:00

Looks like it will be awhile till spring comes to brighten my flower garden.

Introducing the very spoiled, Polka Dot.

And her faithful mentor, Ping Pong.

This was special sighting. I didn't go out because I didn't want to spook them and the photo is not great but we watched three does in our backyard for about a half hour. They were just lazily nibbling on a few leaves.

We had about six inches here in middle Tennessee. Even the malls were closed this weekend. I spent a wonderful day on my laptop, organizing photos and getting acquainted with Picasa. I am so excited about it and hope my pics will improve. (Let me tell you, I am very intimidated with tech stuff.)

I have also found more kindred spirits in blogland. What a fun day!

Blessings.

Knotted Knickers

2010-01-26T05:14:00.000-08:00

I had had my knickers in a tightening knot for days. It seemed like once the tasks and activities of the holidays were over, angst built up. After I apologized for some of the things I said, a precious friend suggested I cut myself some slack. It has been a challenging and emotional roller coaster for months. It was also suggested, very gently I might add, that D (diet) and E (exercise) might be helpful. You know it is bad when she had to resort to code.

So, I did what I needed to do to take care of myself. Why do women allow themselves to fall to the bottom of their own to-do lists? I got a much needed haircut, primped a little more, and smiled more. I cut back on all those bad-for-you carbs and chose leaner meats and more veggies. Sleep is good, too. And I am getting some exercise and fresh air. For fun, I took a walk in the park with my camera and caught a few good shots.
Isn't this the cutest nutkin you have ever seen? How could you not smile at him?

This little fellow was quite cheerful.

This heron had a friend who escaped before I could get a shot of their "discussion".

Cardinals are a favorite...did I mention I love red?

What I learned from this:

listen to your friends
know the warning signs that the "knot" is tightening
know what works for you to get out of the "knot"
In all things, give thanks.

Be real. Be blessed.

China Hutch given new life!

2010-01-21T19:07:00.001-08:00

I love my china hutch. It was a gift from my husband for my first Mother's Day (almost 21 years ago). We even configured our floor plan to accommodate this piece when we were designing our home 11 years ago. My how time flies. It is a very simple, sturdy piece but I was a little bored with the darkness.
Here's my solution: I found some fabric that made me happy in the right colors and cut it to size for the openings. I used simple double stick tape to attach it. Honestly, I half expected it to be in the floor by morning...
To keep with the idea of lighter and brighter, I used a lot of white and a lot less than usual.

So here are the results...simpler, and lighter.

Blessings.

Lighter, brighter decorating!

2010-01-20T12:34:00.000-08:00

After all that cleaning and un-decorating the holiday stuff, I went for a lighter, brighter style. I had so much on top of my kitchen cabinets that it is a wonder they didn't fall off. I put away a lot of crocks and pitchers and baskets...all old and dusty and heavy looking. Of course it took quite a bit of cleaning...I prefer windex or all-purpose cleaner for that job. After I cleaned all that stuff, I covered the top of the cabinets with wax paper so that next time it will be just remove and replace.
I've grouped similar items...

I love old radios and paint-by-numbers...

Did I mention red is my favorite color? And playful toys, too.

This is a collection of carnival glass with just a few accessories to fill it out...

So, when you look at your stuff, maybe you don't even see it anymore. I took everything down and brought out other treasures and it all feels new. Move it around and enjoy your home.

Blessings.

A Fresh New Year

2010-01-15T08:44:00.001-08:00

Yep, I have noticed the calendar says this first month of the new year is already half over. My how time flies. This is a photo of "useless decoration" on my deck. (My son had a few things to say about "the incongruous collection of useless stuff" on my kitchen table.) The ladder was found on a treasure hunting expedition with my best friend and the stones were from a family vacation stop in Portland, ME. Red is my favorite color, too. I haven't exactly been languishing on my divan (it is a project still) with bonbons (couldn't find any) and I am sure you haven't either. I always start the new year with a fresh hope. This year I will "Pursue Passion" to be the woman God wants me to be.

A recent road trip gave me lots of time to think through what that means. My daughter and I went to a wedding 10 hours away and it was wonderful girl time. Over the last few weeks, I have had lots of conversations with my man and we really do like each other still. My heart is to serve, to make others comfortable, to provide a supportive home base, to know others and to be known. I especially have a heart for mentoring young women. I have been blessed to help with home makeover projects through church, to volunteer with Girl Scouts, and most recently tutoring with Christian Women's Job Corp. All of these opportunities have fueled my passion. They are expressions of the woman God created.

Each of us are created uniquely and given unique opportunities and gifts. These aren't just for us but are pieces of the puzzle in His Kingdom. My challenge is this: What are you going to do with the unique puzzle piece you are?

Blessings

Starting the new year with a bang!

2010-01-13T14:02:00.000-08:00

I started the New Year with much enthusiasm. I was very excited to get all my Christmas decorations down and get everything clean. You may remember my "elf" style of Christmas decorations. It was a lot of wow for a little green. New Year's Day, however, it was time...
My plan was to start at the front door and work my way through the open floor plan to the back door. VERY SLOW! The drapes were dry cleaned and windows were cleaned. I have been a very busy woman!
One little project was the dining table chandelier. The shades were brittle, dingy and drab. I finally found replacements but they were a little smaller and too much bulb was exposed. My solution was to glue trim around the bottom...problem solved with style.
I couldn't find just the right color combination in one trim...so I layered two trims for just the perfect touch. Liquid stitch is my new best friend. And the trim is placed low enough on the shade to hide the bulb.

I have a few more projects to share. Life around here is never dull. I asked my sweet husband what he thought of this "clean sweep" and he says he was perfectly happy with things the way they were. I am shooting for a lighter look and I will have more photos soon.

Be happy in your home.

Blessings,

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-23T20:30:00.000-08:00

We wish you a very Merry Christmas! While you are patiently visiting all your crazy relatives, and eating too much, and being hyper-stimulated with twinkly lights and laughter, take a moment to embrace just how blessed you are. I must admit, after I got over the angst of the to-do lists, and focused on how happy I am to be so blessed that I can share and I am not alone, I could really relax. May you especially enjoy your holidays.
Blessings,
Kelley

Elf....simple and WOW!

2009-12-15T19:07:00.000-08:00

So....here it goes! With the help of my family, we put up all our traditional decorations. Here I have my snowman collections along the top of our kitchen cabinets. A few twinkly lights and some greenery... This is our dining room with all the santas, vintage and crafty. Our tradition...

In the living room, we have our tree with all the accumulated ornaments and our village on the piano.

I bought this nativity for my first apartment and my newlywed husband made me the shed to go around it. Every year, the kids negotiate to see who sets it up. This year we have a third stocking for our new son-in-law. It will be a special Christmas.

So, back to my self-imposed "Elf" challenge....With just a ream of copy paper and two glue sticks we created a white, winter wonderland. I did add a few other construction type material: fishing line, cotton string, tape, and a paper cutter (all already on hand). It took the better part of four weeks, cutting and gluing while watching TV.

This is in the living room. Lots of chains and snowflakes...

This is the wonder of our dining room. It will be fun to see what our six foot four son thinks of all this in his atmosphere.

And another look at the living room with the many unique, swirling snowflakes. Never boring at our house.

And in the kitchen, there is a cluster over the island.

This has been a lot of fun. I see so many lovely color palettes and intense decorating ideas for the holidays. I resist investing in all new stuff, year after year. I do the after Christmas sales for a few interesting pieces but still I don't really have a "theme". I really love the look of lots of white, simple, back to basics. I hope you are also challenged to look at things with new eyes. Look for the simple and meaningful.

Blessings.

Praline Bars

2009-12-10T14:19:00.001-08:00

At this wonderful time of year, I am always on the lookout for something easy to take to share. This recipe is easy and delicious...makes it tough to save enough to take anywhere. Enjoy!

Praline Bars

1/3 (16 oz) pkg honey-flavored graham crackers
1 cup butter (no substitutions)
1/2 cup sugar
3/4 cup pecan pieces
chocolate chips, optional ...just kidding!

Break the graham crackers into 3 sections. Line a 10x15 inch jelly roll pan with foil, sprayed with Pam, then crackers. Bring the butter and sugar to a boil in a saucepan. Boil for 3 minutes, stirring constantly. Pour evenly over crackers. Sprinkle with pecans. Bake at 350 degrees for 12 minutes. May sprinkle with chocolate chips after baking and maybe spread a little when melted. Needs to cool off in the fridge a few minutes before breaking up.

I hope you have a truly blessed Christmas.

Elf for Christmas

2009-12-04T06:01:00.001-08:00

First, I have to say that I just love this time of year. I love all the movies and the music. One of my favorite movies is "Elf" because it shows such childlike wonder.

I gave myself a challenge: To use the most basic of supplies, totalling under $5, to create a white wonderland in my home. Using just a ream of printer paper and cheap glue sticks, I plan to create chains and snowflakes and garlands!

I started on November 19th, and this is my progress after about 2 weeks. My patient, saint-like husband has helped. Over the Thanksgiving break, our son and the newlywed couple got in on the fun.

So here I am about two weeks into this self-imposed challenge and I have had a lot of feedback on the home front. Several have commented that I must have a lot of time on my hands, (yes, I guess I do), and that I must be more bored than they thought, ( I am never bored!), and won't that be a huge mess, ( it will be worth it to see the white winter wonderland ).

So, I say, just have fun with it. I will be sure to post some photos when it all gets up...that must be before a party here in a couple of weeks.

Let me know what you think!

Have a blessed holiday season.

Clutter-free, really!

2009-11-20T11:10:00.000-08:00

Our bonus room was the site of so much activity: this is where we home schooled, all of my crafting happened, band practice, and wide open storage of whatever didn't have a home. After I relocated all the crafting stuff, it looked like a bomb went off.

My first step was to move all the "keepers" into the place they would live. I made the usual piles of store, trash, give away, and use now. I actually had a "free indoor yard sale" for a few select treasure hunter friends. It was wonderful that some of the good stuff went to friends. When all was said and done, I had only one car load, 5 boxes, to take to the Hope Center. I devoted a set number of hours a couple of days a week so that I wouldn't feel too overwhelmed.

We have a new family room area. I know what is there and it is clean and clutter-free.

Eventually, we will have a twin bed in that far corner, to be used as a sort of daybed. When we do have guests, it will be a calming space for them. Of course, with time and moolah, we want to paint and put in new flooring. For now, clean and open is good.

Blessings.

Black Bean Soup

2009-11-14T05:49:00.000-08:00

I have a wonderful, easy recipe for black bean soup that is perfect for this chilly weather. It is low in fat and very South Beach and Weight Watcher friendly.

3 cans black beans, drain and rinse 2 of them
1 can chicken broth
1/2 medium onion, chopped
24 oz. medium chunky salsa
1 Tbsp cumin

Cook the onions in a small amount of broth with the cumin until clear. Puree the drained beans with the salsa in a blender. Add this to the broth to heat through. (I use the rest of the broth to get the leftover puree out of the blender and add it to the soup.) Add the undrained beans and let it simmer, stirring often, about 20 minutes. This is great with other condiments and stuff added but it loses some of the "diet friendly"ness.
Blessings!

Time for adventure

2009-11-10T07:59:00.001-08:00

This is taken in the cute little town of Hazel, Ky. in front of a huge antique mall. My mom and my handsome mate are waiting patiently for me to load my treasures in the car before the next store. (Side question: would your husband go with you on a day trip to a quaint little nowhere town to look at old stuff...with your mom? Would you want him to?) We had a wonderful day! We looked in all the shops and had a delicious lunch at Ann's Cafe. I found a few things: "gift not to be divulged here", some quilt mags, a round mirror, an old bottle and a tomato red metal divided cannister. Not a big quantity in stuff to take home, but a wonderful day of memories. My handsome mate does enjoy small towns and appreciates history and has the patience of a saint.

On the way home, we took a few minutes to admire the scenery. Land Between the Lakes is very nearby and the sun was setting. Not a great photo but you get the idea of a day well appreciated.

Hope you have a wonderful adventure with the people who mean the most to you!

Blessings!

Architectural Interest

2009-11-04T07:09:00.001-08:00

Newer homes often lack the character of yesteryear. "Back in the day" much thought was given to interesting molding, arches and panels. These days our home buying dollar doesn't allow a lot of room for fancy. I found this door at a house just before the bulldozer and brought it home, not sure what it's future held. Sometimes you just have to grab it when you see it. So, this lovely beaded board door rested in my basement for a few years. In a flurry of decorating inspiration, I mounted a corbel with a broken demilune tabletop on the door. After many yoga-like contortions (I was doing this alone), I got the door securely mounted on the wall with anchors. Then I hung the mirror on it...perfect to check your lipstick before you answer the door. I love to put a candle or flowers there on the shelf.

So, keep your eyes open for unusual but interesting treasures. They will eventually work their way into your space and add to the warmth of your home.

Blessings!

White Space

2009-10-30T09:28:00.001-07:00

What a lovely fall! We live in the woods and are surrounded by all sorts of trees, especially hickory trees. Their leaves turn a glowing gold in the fall.

Artists and decorators will tell you to leave a little white space (empty spots) in the project to give the eye a rest as it travels through the view. I try not to cover every square inch of the walls with decor. I like to create art pieces that allow some areas to shine more while others rest in the background.

I like to leave a little white space in my day also. Then I can be available for the unexpected...a friend in need, bouncing on the trampoline, a nap, a good book, a chance to give a little, a lovely view.

Blessings,

Apple Dumplings

2009-10-26T07:44:00.000-07:00

This is a great fall recipe. I found this in the Busy Bee Trader, submitted by Lucy Bradley of TN Farm Bureau/Country Classics. (Gotta give credit where credit is due, my mama always said.)

2 granny smith apples

1 (8 count) can crescent rolls

1/8 tsp cinnamon

1/2 cup butter or margarine

1 cup sugar

1 cup orange juice

1 tsp vanilla

Peel and core apples and cut into fourths. Unroll and separate crescent rolls. Wrap each apple piece in one crescent roll. Place in 8-inch square baking dish. Sprinkle with cinnamon. Combine margarine, sugar, and juice in saucepan. Bring to a boil and remove from heat. Stir in vanilla. Pour over rolls (syrup will cook down as dumplings bake). Bake in a 350* oven for 30 minutes. Spoon pan juices over rolls when serving. Recipe may be doubled- bake for about 45 minutes. Really excellent served with a scoop of ice cream!

Hope you enjoy the lovely fall!

My dirty little secret

2009-10-19T17:07:00.000-07:00

Everyone has at least one and top on my list (that I am willing to share) is my shower. I am a quick, first-thing-in-the-morning, shower person who usually is wearing glasses (VERY bad vision without). That is my excuse and I'm sticking to it. So, I am shocked when I notice the yuck in my shower. I read that the scum/mildew/yuck can be discouraged by a coat of car wax. So, today, after an extreme cleaning, I coated the shower stall with car wax. I did not put the stuff on the floor of the shower because my tip source says it would be unsafely slick. At the very least, it is clean and shiny and would be recommended if I were trying to sell the house. It looks great. I am hopeful...

Make time

2009-10-13T04:10:00.001-07:00

I thought this was a great photo of a very happy little girl going for a pony cart ride with her grandpa. This will be a memory she will treasure. Doesn't she look proud to be going for an adventure? This man has made time to do something that will speak joy into this little girl for many years to come. It has taken a little effort, no doubt, and he could have been doing something comfortable/fun/relaxing for himself.
Our society has promoted many wonderful time-saving devices...don't even think I would give up my dishwasher or microwave. At the same time, we have constant access to mind-numbing TV and work via cell/laptop.
We have to make time to do the things that are important to us. What we invest ourselves in today, will be obvious when we see our fruits tomorrow. Make time for what is important to you.
Blessings on this new day...

a table to sit by the fire

2009-10-07T14:50:00.001-07:00

A cozy spot by the fire...

Yes, this is a set of antique sewing machine drawers! It is the perfect height and width to sit just on the brick hearth next to my favorite spot next to the fire. The custom cut top is glued to the drawer set and attached to the wall with a simple L-bracket. I was blessed with a gift of a matching pair of these drawers and I have done the same on the other side. My dear husband loves symmetry and this works.

Cake Recipe...chocolate, coconut, caramel, Oh my!

2009-10-04T15:21:00.000-07:00

This cake recipe is easy and very flexible. No one has complained and I always bring home an empty dish. You get to name your own creation, if you wish.

1 cake mix (see flavor combos below)
ingredients required by mix, i.e. oil, eggs, water
1 reg can sweetened condensed milk
1 can goodness (see flavor combos below)
another secret ingredient (again, see flavor combos below)
Cool Whip

Bake the cake in a 9x13 baking dish per mix ingredients. While the cake is still hot, use a wooden spoon handle to punch several holes in the cake, like every couple of inches. Pour over the cake both the sweetened condensed milk and the can of goodness, about a cup of each. Top with secret ingredient and cool whip. This is best if made the day before so the cake can absorb all the goodness. Be sure to refrigerate.

I have made this in the following combos:
1. devil's food cake, hersheys syrup, and cherry pie filling
2. yellow butter cake, coconut milk, coconut and/or crushed pineapple
3. chocolate cake, caramel syrup, toffee chips and/or chopped nut
Let me know if you have any other great combo ideas. Have a wonderful day!
Kelley B

Loaded Question #2

2009-10-01T07:00:00.000-07:00

If you have already figured out your proposed path (because you must know that God has His plans for you), then answering loaded question #1 was no big deal. Some of us are still struggling to know what we are supposed to be doing. And that brings me to #2:

What is your passion?

Each of us are created uniquely to fulfill a purpose. We know we are in the right groove when we are following our God-given passion. Believe me, He can use anything. My favorite things to do are decorating and number puzzles. I found a group at church that does "Divine Do-overs" for needy families. We have done homes and homeless shelters: painting, furniture, organizing, crafting, all on a very tight budget at that. I mentioned to a friend at one of the jobs that I love budgeting (weird, I know) and numbers. She remembered this and introduced me to another opportunity to serve struggling women who are studying for their GED. I have no doubt that I was where I was supposed to be in both those opportunities. So, yes, He can use anything.

How do you find your passion so that it can be used and you know you are in the right groove? What experiences have you had that seemed like you had a "tailwind", like it was something you couldn't have done on your own? What activities/projects/ideas/plans keep you awake at night in a good way, and you think of first thing in the morning? What have you done that others seem to support (people you trust for more than polite lip service)? I would suggest that if you still haven't found "it", then maybe you have been in your comfort zone too long. Maybe you need to try some new things that you have held back on but always dreamed of. Fear is not a God-given trait.

Consider this encouragement to embrace the person God created you to be and to get about His business.

Blessings,

Kelley B

How to be a good friend

2009-09-27T20:15:00.000-07:00

First, let me state that the title does not in any way make the assumption that I am an authority on this topic. It only means that it is uppermost in my mind and my heart these days because I so deeply treasure my friendships. I want to be a better friend.

I began to make a list of ways to take care of these relationships and this is what I came up with.

1. Pray for her/him. This a selfless act that will make a difference. Prayers never go unheard.

2. Be honest in the relationship. You must be yourself so that the reactions by your friend are based on truth. If your friend asks for an opinion, respond in truth, not necessarily the easiest.

3. Make time for each other. Stop multitasking and really be present in the conversation.

4. Have adventures together. Be willing to try new things and grow as an individual. This brings fresh air to any relationship.

5. Enjoy simple, everyday things together. Treasure daily activities.

6. Understand that friendships are living and need care. Keep them fed with quality time and effort. Study them to stay in tune to needs and changes.

7. Family, spouses, work associates, school and church aquaintances are all relationships just waiting to be deepened with prayer, caring and time.

Do you have any more ideas that are missing? I am commiting to working on these friendships myself.

Some Chicken Ideas...

2009-09-23T18:02:00.000-07:00

In this day and age, any ideas to save time and money are great. I like to buy frozen chicken, usually boneless, skinless breasts in 3-4 pound bags. This is a great per pound value. First, let the chicken thaw in the bag...be warned --- those bags leak.
1. Barbecue: Bake covered at 400 degrees for 40 minutes. Shred. Cover in bbq sauce of choice. Return to baking dish. For immediate use, allow to warm in oven for 15-20 minutes. Save leftovers by spreading on foil covered baking sheet, freezing and placing in freezer bag.
2. Southwestern: While the chicken is thawing, sprinkle with one packet of fajita seasoning. Shake in bag to coat. Place on baking sheet and bake at 400 degrees for 40 minutes. Cool and chop.
3. All purpose: Place thawed chicken on baking sheet and sprinkle with seasoned salt. Bake at 400 degrees for 40 minutes. Cool and chop.
I like to spread the shredded/chopped chicken on a baking sheet to freeze initially and then transfer to a freezer bag for use as needed. You can take out just what you need for a sandwich, quesadilla, or salad whenever you need it.
Enjoy!

Loaded Question #1

2009-09-21T19:50:00.000-07:00

Everyone once in a while I see a chotchky with a saying that gives me pause. This happened recently in Target. The little ceramic plaque said:

What would you do if you thought you couldn't fail?

This has inspired much conversation. When you consider unlimited possiblities in different areas of your life, it will give you pause as well.

Who: only you can answer this for yourself; no one else will try.

What: only you can know the what; lose weight, train for a marathon, change careers, strengthen relationships, quit smoking...How will you recognize success?

When: how about now? Over the next year? The five year plan?

How: set baby steps, think positively, get support, learn a new skill...

Why: why not?

If you don't try, you may never know. Likely, you have as great a chance at success.

Hydrangeas are my favorite flower

2009-09-18T09:46:00.000-07:00

My favorite flower in the world is hydrangeas. They come in so many great colors and if handled well, will last all year. We had lots of them in the recent wedding. To keep the bloom year round just keep the fresh cut stems in water until the bloom is dry. The blooms purchased from the florist didn't make it, maybe because of refrigeration. Just the homegrown variety lasted.

This is what happens when they are hung upside down. The color might be brighter but the bloom is yucky.

Hope you have a blessed day.

Kelley

Feed your soul!

2009-09-17T10:58:00.000-07:00

A recent conversation with a dear friend led us both to really think about what feeds our soul. I suppose that for some it is Bible Study, or family visits, or words of encouragement, or good ole chocolate, or a favorite activity. For me, it is a complicated combination of all of the above. I firmly believe that you must make time for this "feeding" for yourself. No one else will do it for you.

Since it has been raining here for a few days and I am avoiding cleaning up my garden anyway, I have taken advantage of this time to play, i. e. "feed my soul." Here is a photo of what came out of it. It is composed of 340 hand cut pieces of paper in a collage featuring a quilt pattern called "Churn Dash." After some thought, it seems to me that we all have a unique turmoil in our lives of some sort (as in caught up in a churn dash) and when it comes right down to it we must "Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will given to you as well." Matt. 6:33

I hope to bless my newlywed daughter with this piece, maybe to remind them to seek our Father first.

This is the new haven of creativity

2009-09-15T07:30:00.001-07:00

We really should come up with a name for this magical place. I have taken over my daughter's old bedroom and transformed it into my own craft/sewing/magical room. I am trying not to feel too guilty over how much joy this brings me. She took with her every stick of furniture and all her memorabilia, leaving only scrippets on the floor and holes in the walls. So, here are a few photos. Keep in mind that I have tried every craft medium known to man and then some.

I love to use old tins, jars, and boxes to hold all the little paraphenalia that goes with crafting. I used half of an old table to create a sewing table. I cut out a hole and added support for the machine so that it is a smooth platform.

The other side of the room is complete with more storage and a wide open work table. (It certainly is not that clear at this moment!)

And so it begins...

2009-09-14T20:03:00.000-07:00

I am so very excited to begin this adventure into blogging. I am the happy homemaker that gets confused with "Martha" in my family. My greatest blessing has been being a stay at home mom. I often said that my sweet husband works hard for me to stay home but I wasn't at home that much. Like most women, life gets busy. After a few years at this, I really can appreciate a comfortable home.

I hope to include photos of projects around the house, a well received recipe occasionally, a really great deal, tips from my home CEO desk (Hey, I run this place!), and maybe a special ah hah moment or two. I will not commit to daily postings...this is supposed to be fun, after all.

Alas, my nest is mostly empty now. That means I have more time to grow as a woman first. You know that moms are the last on their own lists. This time in my life will be an adventure in itself. Welcome to the ride!